Reframing our STORIES
Changing our Narrative Around Sexual Health, Relationships and Conversations
For Families
Changing our Narrative Around Sexual Health, Relationships and Conversations
How I can work with your family
A system that greatly impacts our relationship with our sexuality is our religious institutions. This may look different for many, but based on the conversations brought to us, it is the place where shame and worth are entertained frequently.
At Reframing our Stories, we believe that removing shame and having open conversations about sexuality and relationships are critical needs within the church. It is our desire to educate and equip religious spaces to learn how to nurture conversations around sexuality without shame. We are supporters and allies to our LGBTQIA+ friends. We support those whose self-worth has been negatively impacted by their sexual experiences, and those who have faced abuse.
We believe that when people are nurtured with grace and care, they can live into who they truly are. Our goal is to help foster the creation of such spaces in your church as well as provide workshops and retreats to help leadership, parents, and youth on a myriad of topics to care for your community.
Resources for parents and their children
“The Reframing our Stories Conversation Cards have absolutely changed the dynamic at our dinner table! I have 7.5 and 5 year old girls who are learning ways to discuss topics about their body, friendships, empathy, respect in a way that I didn’t figure out until an adult in therapy. They love getting the cards out and I love the opportunities use our discussions as road maps when they encounter conflicts with their friends and even with each other. Every single family needs these in their homes! With kids, school, work, extra curriculars and all the chaos that comes with life, having dedicated discussions brings us so much closer while we have our priceless time together at dinner. Can’t wait for the next set (yet to be discovered!). Thank you ROS!!”
~ Kelly S.
This two pager is intended for teens to think about their values to help drive their behavior online. Through question prompts that can be used as a writing guide or for discussion, they can consider their points of view about sex, boundaries, values, relationships, safety, connections, consent and care.
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Table Talk Sessions
If you want to go deeper with exploring many topics of sexuality, invite Kara to your retreat. She can work with you or your team to explore themes and programming to make the experience for the participates one of learning and renewal.
Parents’ Night
Parenting can feel like we’re taking on the world — it can be overwhelming & exhausting. Kara offers support in areas of sexual education to give parents confidence to make this part of life less stress inducing. Topics can include children, partners, relationships, culture, and/or self-care. Grab your friends & have an evening with a sex educator. Wine may help too.
Conversation Cards
Conversation Cards are designed to prompt introductory conversations and help children begin to understand their bodies, feelings, health, sexuality, and relationships. They can be used before reading stories at bedtime, at the dinner table, or in school circle time. One card can prompt a full conversation including discussion based on responses - you can ask more questions based on responses or provide your own answer from what you might recall from that age. You can go through the cards and begin with the ones you feel the child will understand, then progress to other cards. The goal of these cards is to begin having conversations with children from the earliest age so they are a comfortable and natural part of your teaching or parenting.
1:1 Consultations
Since sexuality is a personal topic, we sometimes need to talk about our lives privately. In one on one sessions, Kara can provide a listening ear and resources. Often, we just need someone to air out our concerns with and get the education we need to feel good about who we are.
Reframing our STORIES
Changing our Narrative Around Sexual Health, Relationships and Conversations
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* As a sex educator, Kara can provide accurate information about health and sexuality. If your concerns go beyond what she can provide as an educator and counselor, she will encourage therapy and provide referrals to those in sex therapy.